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Little Ones … To Have Or Not To Have

Nerida McMurray Photography — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 23:20:56 +0000

When clients come to meet me in the studio, they are often still pondering the idea of whether or not to have flowergirls or pageboys.

They usually ask my opinion as to their involvement with the photography during the day and when they should ‘go back to Mummy or babysitter’. Many couples have nephews, nieces, their own children or friend’s children that make a delightful not to mention photogenic addition to their bridal party ensemble.

Some things to consider from my point of view are:

Is Mum or Dad in the bridal party? If this is the case, it’s unlikely that your bridesmaid or groomsman will be able to relax and be part of the photo session, as they will be constantly wondering ‘where’s Ava?’ … If Ava happens to be a toddler.

Your friend will be on mothers duty and I often find, just not relaxed especially if the location is in a public place where there is lots going on around us and plenty of places for a toddler to go missing.

Also if Ava decides it’s time to throw a tantrum for whatever reason – your friend will have to sort it out and perhaps miss out on being in the photos. For this reason I always suggest a babysitter/relative to be there so the bridal party can relax – the best photos are taken when everyone is relaxed – the best photos of kids are when they don’t even know they are being photographed.

How old are they? Flower Girls and Page Boys range in age – this is something to consider… will they loose it walking down the aisle if they are too young? Will they need feeding and/or a nap during the location shoot?

Finally, the last thing to consider is that little ones are so cute they’re in danger of stealing the show… but that’s what it’s all about!

Photography by Nerida McMurray Photography

Ms Gingham says: Having little ones as part of your bridal party is fraught with the possibility of unexpected things happening. I’ve heard stories of flowergirls wetting themselves during ceremonies! Nevertheless, these are the things that will be really memorable looking back on the day. After all, picking your nose is only considered adorable up to the age of three so why not capture it on film?

Nerida says: “I love weddings and I feel blessed that my job is a significant element of a very special day for people. Giving the couple their photos after their honeymoon, and seeing the delight and joy on their faces as they reminisce over one of the most memorable days in their lives, is one of my favourite parts of my job.”

Nerida is a regular contributor to the Wisdom blog with advice based articles like what to do if it rains on your wedding day. Read them all here.

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Flowergirl Style From Big By Fiona Scanlan

Polka Dot Bride — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 04:00:37 +0000

I’ve always loved the designs that Big By Fiona Scanlan releases for the little ones (seriously, why were feather hairbands, sequin capes and tutus not available from funky stores when I was a kid? I was relegated to wearing my ballet performance tutu around the house!) so I loved these fresh summer looks from her latest campaign. They’re sweet and stylish and make great outfits for your flower girls to wear on warmer days.

Summer Sunshine Flower Girl Look

I love this look for a casual summer wedding full of bright colours (plenty of gelato!) The spotted tulle headband is so sweet and the parasol is something a little different and fun to carry and keeps baby soft skin from the rays of the sun.

Sweetheart lace dress from Big By Fiona Scanlan 1. Orange spotted tulle head band by Soonca from Babys Got Style 2. Parasol from Pink Frosting 3. Silver braided sandals by Petit by Sofie Schnoor from 55 Degrees North

Modern Princess Flower Girl Look

For a modern take on the traditional flower girl look, this little ensemble puts the flower girl in tights and a modern silver colour. Pair it with a fun accessory like a silver mask,sparkly beads around her neck and a really different floral arrangement- full of sparkles!

Floral tutu and soft metallic leggings from Big By Fiona Scanlan 1. Sequin feather mask from Babys Got Style 2. Bouquet from Butterfly Philosophy 3. Silver ballet flats from Walnut

Bohemian Fancy Flower Girl Look

For a fancy, colourful take on a bohemian style. Why not choose a colour palette of sweet summer pastels? A pretty, low hair accessory, a hand crafted wand and some funky tasseled flats bring this flower girl look together.

Very bright 50s dress from Fiona 1. Yellow wood hand carved wand from 3PrincessesEngraving 2. Pom pom flower from ban.do 3. Tassle sandal from Country Road

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Sweet Flowergirl Inspiration

Polka Dot Bride — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 05:00:44 +0000

Long floaty dresses and wild floral arrangements are not an obvious choice for the littlest members of your bridal party – but I think this flower girl inspiration shoot might sway you from traditional into something incredibly sweet and beautiful. There’s something that captured my heart about this inspiration shoot – the gorgeous long flowy dresses just perfect for little girls and the wild, stunning floral arrangements which look like they’ve been picked from a country garden – the leaves and flowers poking out at every angle just adds to the whimsical nature of these sweet little flower girls.

The gorgeous photographs today are by Alana Aston Photography, styling and flowers by Green and Bloom, flower girl dresses from Tea Princess, hair and make-up by Brush and Blush.

Photographs by Alana Aston Photography, styling and flowers by Green and Bloom, flower girl dresses from Tea Princess, hair and make-up by Brush and Blush.

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Fluffy Flowergirl Dresses

Polka Dot Bride — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 05:07:05 +0000

I’m not quite sure, but sometimes I think flower girls get the better deal in the whole “Dressing up for a wedding” issue. Puffy skirts, sweet hair accessories and throwing petals. I love the range of flower girl dresses on offer at the moment – from fluffy tutu skirts, to sweet cotton lace dresses. Here’s a few of my favourite flower girl dresses (and accessories) for your little ones.

1. Anna Campbell 2. Stellina Cute Couture 3. Elodie & Elvis 4. Jennifer Catherine Design 5. Anna Campbell 6. Tea Princess 7. Odessa Dress from Mini Treasure Kids 8.Elodie & Elvis 9. Anna Campbell

10. Anna Campbell 11.Percy Handmade 12. Elodie & Elvis 13. Tea Princess 14. Jennifer Catherine Design 15. Malley & Co from Something Nice For Kids 16.Stellina Cute Couture 17. Anna Campbell 18. Jennifer Catherine Design 19. Stellina Cute Couture

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Flower Girl Gowns From The Little Dress Making Company

Polka Dot Bride — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 05:04:22 +0000

I’m not sure how I stumbled upon these sweet little frocks for little girls from The Little Dress Making Company- but don’t you think they’d make the perfect little flower girl gowns? I’m especially in love with the “Shirley” gown with the bow around it’s neck and the box pleat.

Handmade clothes are so special and these dresses come straight from Melbourne. I love the thought of a flower girl wearing one of these with little ballet slippers, flowers in her hair and a sweet basket of petals. The bold graphic prints tie in with the colourful wedding choices nowadays (I love the yellow and white florals), and would work with bold tights and headbands.

Photos from The Little Dress Making Company

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