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What Would They Know? Robyn Pattison Celebrant

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I’m always really interested to know about the logistics and legalities behind the most important part of the wedding day – the ceremony. So today’s featured expert, Robyn Pattison is going to share a few things about her experience as a marriage celebrant!

Tell me about yourself? Where are you based?
I’m 35 years old, and I have two little boys. I studied journalism at university (so handy for writing my ceremonies). I live in Ryde, Sydney and I travel all over Sydney to help my couples marry.

What influenced your decision to become a marriage celebrant?
I was always the girl who helped at weddings – I styled the lot – handmade invitations, table decorations, colour schemes, everything. Weddings were always going to be my thing. I absolutely love a party, so becoming a marriage celebrant was a great way to surround myself with happy, gorgeous people celebrating the most romantic moment of their lives. There aren’t many young celebrants, either – it just made sense, and I’ve never been happier. Best job in the world. (I feel like a fairy godmother with a magic wand!)

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What inspires you? How do you keep your ideas fresh for each wedding?
I always fall a little bit in love with my couples! They are all so different and I love it! I spend as much time as I can with each one to really find out what makes them tick. Trying to make sure that every single couple gets their perfect ceremony keeps the experience new for me every time. It’s so much fun, I never get bored. I’m 10% nervous and 90% excited before every ceremony begins.

Do Australian brides and grooms have a distinctive style?
What I love about my job is that I meet all kinds of Australians. Aussie born couples, Chinese, Malaysian, Vietnamese immigrants who have made Australia their home, English holiday makers, South American travelers – all sorts. What delights me is that all of these groups honour me with the responsibility of marrying them in the style that respects their heritage and embraces their future. Distinctive? Distinctively different.

Do couples request a standard ceremony or are they more inclined to want an individually tailored celebration from you?
I write a personally tailored ceremony for every single couple I meet. There is nothing worse for your guests than coming away from your wedding feeling like it was the same as the last one they went to. It has to be all about you. After all – the ceremony itself is the reason for the whole celebration.

What other celebrations do you perform?
I love commitment ceremonies and vow renewals. These are every bit as romantic and special as a legal wedding – mainly because there are no legal aspects – it all comes from the heart. I can write and perform a ceremony to honour anyone, at any stage of their life.

What is your number one tip for brides and grooms?
Relax! It’s your big day, don’t rush through it, don’t stress about it. The most beautiful brides are the happy ones who just enjoy every minute and run with it. A beautiful dress makes you look great, but a smile is the ultimate accessory.

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If money were no object, how would you style your dream wedding? How would you, as the marriage celebrant, celebrate this sort of wedding?
Where do you start? Pick a spot by the beach, tropical climate, sunrise, candles twinkling as the sun overtakes them, a beautiful dress but barefoot, a breakfast banquet, served under a frangipani and orchid strewn marquee, celebrations that go all day. Send a wreath of tropical flowers out to sea, or give fresh floral leis to your guests. Most of all – make it fun!
A beach wedding has to embrace the environment, the sound of waves crashing is the perfect backdrop to gentle reflection. Keep the words simple, write and speak your own vows. Early morning is the most peaceful time of any day – it is fresh and new, and full of beginnings. Readings and poetry should reflect these feelings.

What are your favourite wedding celebration ideas?
I love celebrations that combine cultural traditions with modern Australian traditions. One of my couples made their vows in each other’s native languages. Each had to learn to speak the other’s language, so that when they heard the other’s vow, it was even more special to them – it had been a real effort.

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What do you love about Australian Brides?
No bridezillas! All of my brides have been divine. Friendly, lighthearted, beautiful girls with style AND a sense of humour.

What should brides start with when they come to you to start the planning process?
Tell me the date and the time you wish to marry. Let’s have a chat about what you want. Ask me anything at all. I’ll help. Visit my website to get a feel for who I am – I love my work, and I want my brides to enjoy the whole process – we are going to be spending a bit of time together, so it’s important that we “click”. And book early.

What was your most memorable wedding moment?
A tiny private ceremony that I performed with a couple and two witnesses in February. Waves crashing at sunset on South Head. Almost no formal ceremony, more like a series of events. The bare-chested groom recited a native American chant, the bride sang a Hawaiian song. We had a period of silence in which bride and groom stood heads and hands together, looking into each other’s eyes, while the rest of us cried! They did their vows in whispers, hands on each other’s hearts. Gobsmackingly romantic. Never to be forgotten.

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5 things a bride must get right?
1 Her sense of humour. So what if a flock of cockatoos fly overhead in the middle of the ceremony? It doesn’t change a thing. Wait, laugh, then keep going.
2 Her friendship. Be kind to your bridesmaids. They are your best friends, they want to make you happy, and you want to keep them for life.
3. Her sense of self. Plan a ceremony and a wedding that reflect the sort of people you are. If you are friendly, relaxed and informal, then that is the way your ceremony should feel, and that is the style of celebration you should aim for.
4. Her mood. So long as she is happy – everything will be perfect! Don’t stress about the little things.
Oh, and 5. Her timing.
It’s really awkward when a bride is so late that the guests start asking the groom and the celebrant if she has cold feet, and whether or not she is coming. Grooms are nervous enough while they wait – don’t make it harder on him!

Thank you for joining Polka Dot Bride today Robyn! You can find out more about what Robyn does via her website!

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Bella Figura Sample Sale

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Beautiful letterpress stationers Bella Figura are holding a sample sale from today from the 10th of August until the 31st August (US Time) while stocks last.

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All samples are reduced to $1 from $5 and the proceeds are going to be donated to American Forests.

Bella Figura is always more than happy to ship to Australia too so Aussies aren’t going to miss out! Check out the Bella Figura website for more

Jason Grech White

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I love stumbling upon great bridal designers and the lovely Emma of $30 Date Night put me on to today’s featured designer!

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Jason Grech (otherwise known as JASONGRECH) is the Melbourne label born out of design duo Jason & Harry.

After opening their couture label in 2004, they recently launched their bridal couture & made to measure line after many requests, known as Jason Grech White, brides will be attended to at every fitting by Jason & Harry and advised on their total bridal “look”.

Here are recent runway shots from the Bride Magazine expo

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Jason Grech White uses European laces, delicate silks and lustrous satins. The Made To Measure and couture experiences take between 5-6 sessions with the designers who are determined to create a gown that will complement and flatter any woman’s shape.

Visit the Jason Grech website for more.

Photos by Jason Grech White

 

Win Two Nights At The Marriot Hotel!

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Popular for weddings and romantic first nights, the Marriot Hotel, Brisbane, with its grand marble lobby and inner location, is a luxurious venue for any celebration.
So I’m thrilled they are joining Polka Dot Bride in a fantastic giveaway!

The Marriott Hotel Brisbane “Romance Package” is perfect for your wedding night, anniversary or honeymoon .It includes overnight accommodation, sparkling wine and chocolates on arrival, full buffet breakfast for two, late check-out at 1:00 pm, valet car parking and starts at $295 per night.

Wedding Win Two Nights At The Marriot Hotel!

For one lucky couple, The Marriot Hotel Brisbane has extended their “Romance Package” for two nights and is offering it as a wedding night package for a Brisbane couple or special celebration package for interstate guests.

Featuring a king bed, marble bath, luxurious ‘Revive’ Bedding, a beautiful view over the Brisbane river, 32 inch LCD TV, 24 hour room service and nightly turndown service the Brisbane Marriott is the ultimate in five star luxury.

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Being on the exclusive executive level, you’ll have access to the Executive lounge, which provides complimentary hors d’oeuvres, dessert and alcoholic beverages daily between 5.30pm and 9.30pm and a continental breakfast each morning .

The prize is valued at $900 and includes:

• Two nights accommodation in an Executive level river room
• Full buffet or room service breakfast for two
• Valet parking
• Chilled Domaine Chandon and chocolates on arrival
• Late checkout of 1pm


To enter, simply leave a comment on this entry and tell us the first four lines of a handwritten, romantic poem you might compose to celebrate your good fortune at having won the prize.

Entry is open to Australian residents aged 18 or older. Competition closes 31st of August, 5pm Australian Eastern Standard Time. Prize is subject to availability, valid Fri – Sunday.

This competition is now closed.

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