When it came to The Invitation Issue, we knew we needed to hit our mark when it came to paper-inspired cocktails. So today? Meet the P.S I Love You.

We have absolutely no idea where this delicious little drink came from or who invented it, but with its cream base, it is all the kinds of dessert we adore! Even if we only need to whip one of these corny named cocktails up every time we write to our beloved a letter of romantic thoughts, it’s the most delicious of dessert cocktails! Serve one of these for a midnight snack or to tired guests as it has all the best bits – coffee, a hint of nuttiness from the amaretto and plenty of decadence.

Oh and those beautiful watercolour invitations in the background? Divine pieces from the amazing Lemontree Paper Co.


  • Ice
  • 20ml Amaretto Liqueur
  • 20ml Irish Cream
  • 20ml Cream
  • 15ml Coffee Liqueur
  • 15ml rum
  • Chocolate (to garnish)


  1. In a cocktail shaker combine ice, amaretto, Irish cream, cream, coffee liqueur and rum.
  2. Shake very, very well
  3. Strain into a martini glass or champagne coupe
  4. Grate chocolate on top fo the cocktail to garnish

Bonbonnieres are a time old tradition that have been gracing the dinner tables of weddings and special events for as long as can be remembered.
Originating in Italy, the tradition was a way to thank guests for their well wishes and their generosity of beautiful gifts. Five sugared almonds in a small bag or box were a symbol of five wishes for the newlyweds – health, wealth, happiness, children and long life.

These days the tradition of giving a gift is still very popular however the gifts themselves have taken many new directions. Popular trends in the past few years have been homemade jams and chutneys, small plant pots, living gifts and lolly jars. These options are popular amongst the DIY Bride as they share that special “homemade love”.

A new idea that we think is fantastic is Chocolate Bark. Not only fabulously delicious but chocolate bark is fun, modern and allows you to tie it in with your colour scheme.

Choose your chocolate! White chocolate is fantastic for the lighter more romantic colour schemes. Milk and Dark Chocolate are great for a modern bright mix or a deeper moodier style. We have used Lindt chocolate for all three of our Barks.
Choose your decorations/mix ins. Select nuts, dried or freeze dried fruits, sprinkles, sparkles and edible glitter that will complement your chocolate colour and wedding scheme.

The Chocolate Bark is impressive when completed so purchase some small clear gift bags so you can show off your hard work when complete.Create your own thank you tags or download a digital file and print at home. Use similar colours to your decorations to tie the gift together. Choose a coloured twine, string or ribbon that will add to your presentation.

There are many great recipes around for chocolate bark so take a look online to see if any in particular take your fancy. We have followed the this recipe for our chocolate bark but choose one that suits you. This recipe is simple and perfect for any DIY Bride. After melting your chocolate, adding in your mix-ins and letting it set in a refrigerator it is time for the fun part!
Break up your bark into a mixture of sizes and shapes.

Using your clear bags, string and tags divide your bark into the bags. Add a few additional loose pieces of your decorations eg. Nuts or sprinkles etc. This will add some additional interest to the bags. Tie up, ready for the big day and keep refrigerated for best quality and to avoid melting. We have made three different styles to show you how unique Chocolate Bark can be.

White Chocolate, pistachio and cranberries sprinkled with gold edible glitter looks elegant and romantic with the Peach watercolour gift tag. Ideal for the soft and dreamy wedding colour scheme. Our Milk Chocolate and sprinkle bark is dusted in bright blue and yellow cake dust for a bold effect. This bark is fun, bold and edgy. Perfectly suited to a wedding that is about a bold celebration.

Finally the dark chocolate combination is a deep earthy mix of deep autumn tones and is full of freeze dried berries. Cake crystals and copper cake dust were the perfect finishing touches for this bark.
Don’t be afraid to mix and match and make your Chocolate bark to suit your wedding colour scheme and style. Have some fun and don’t forget to lick the bowl!

Ms Zebra Says: I absolutely LOVE this idea! It’s a thoughtful, yet easy DIY gift that your guests will appreciate – and enjoy!

At The Rustic at Heart it is our passion to tell love stories through event stationery and signage that is created out of materials with texture and elegance. We offer Wood, leather, acrylic and linen paper all laser engraved with modern designs to create unique stationery packages. Any theme, colour or style. We love to create packages to suit all our couples stories.

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We’re getting a bit cheeky today for ‘The Suit Issue‘ with Galah‘s ‘Budgie Smuggler’ cocktail…because swimsuits totally count (and we don’t mind what you wear under your wedding day tux, as long as you love it!). Or maybe you’re just hoping to set the mood for your impending honeymoon on a beach somewhere by sipping a couple of these fragrantly, spicy beauties?

Set in a former panel beater’s storage space, now sleekly reimagined as an industrial-meets-mid-century-modern loft, Galah is all about bringing Australian flavour to the forefront. It’s an impressive spot for wedding planning sessions (over inventive drinks and deluxe grazing boards, of course) with your partner and suppliers. Otherwise, for cool warehouse-style weddings, this Windsor venue seats 80 or can host up to 140 for a locally-focused cocktail party.

Budgie Smuggler by Galah

  • 45ml Four Pillars rare dry gin
  • 30ml Pepperberry puree (try Poimena Peppers’ version)
  • 30ml Fresh lemon juice
  • 15ml Galangal rosemary syrup
  • 1 Dehydrated citrus wheel, rosemary sprig, blueberry or mint leaves, to garnish (optional)

Shake all ingredients – except garnishes – and strain into a collins glass or balloon snifter. Top with crushed ice. Garnish with a dehydrated citrus wheel and flamed rosemary sprig or alternatively a berry and a few mint leaves – this one’s so versatile you can easily adapt to your or your beloved’s taste.

About Ms Fleur de Lys: Aside from being Ms Polka’s Editorial Assistant, Ms Fleur de Lys is also Polka Dot Bride’s Melbourne correspondent so you’ll see her running all over town finding wedding inspiration. As both a lifestyle journalist and cocktail aficionado, Fleur appreciates the power of words whipped up as deftly as a good martini.